ok got it figured out..
for others who wants it
create a registry file and put this in it. adjust the path from where your exe is.
Windows Registry Editor Version 5.00
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Table]
@="Future Pinball Table"
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Table\DefaultIcon]
@="D:\\vPinball\\FuturePinball\\Future Pinball.exe,5"
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Table\Shell]
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Table\Shell\Open]
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Table\Shell\Open\Command]
@="\"D:\\vPinball\\FuturePinball\\Future Pinball.exe\" /open \"%1\""
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Table\Shell\Play Table]
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Table\Shell\Play Table\Command]
@="\"D:\\vPinball\\FuturePinball\\Future Pinball.exe\" /open \"%1\" /play"
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Table]
@="Future Pinball Table"
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Table\DefaultIcon]
@="D:\\vPinball\\FuturePinball\\Future Pinball.exe,5"
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Table\Shell]
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Table\Shell\Open]
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Table\Shell\Open\Command]
@="\"D:\\vPinball\\FuturePinball\\Future Pinball.exe\" /open \"%1\""
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Table\Shell\Play Table]
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Table\Shell\Play Table\Command]
@="\"D:\\vPinball\\FuturePinballl\\Future Pinball.exe\" /open \"%1\" /play"
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Library]
@="Future Pinball Library"
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Classes\Future Pinball Library\DefaultIcon]
@="D:\\vPinball\\FuturePinballl\\Future Pinball.exe,6"
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Library]
@="Future Pinball Library"
[HKEY_CLASSES_ROOT\Future Pinball Library\DefaultIcon]
@="D:\\vPinball\\FuturePinballl\\Future Pinball.exe,6"