@Dilbflo
I will revert question: where is difference betrwee your computer, installed software and setting and hundrets of other users?
Right now i'm at begin of game in 20 questions 
At first lets start from begin:
0. Test your computer with any 3d mark, like free fire strike. Just to verify, that your computer is working correctly.
1. You should install BAM from 2-in-1 installer.
2. ... current version... v.341, not alder one, don't "mix" files with older version.
3. ... on drive c: (main computer drive, no pendrives, no network drives on another computer, no NAS storage)
4. ... in normal direct. Default is: "c:\games\future pinball". It can be: "c:\testing" or something like this, but nothing on desktop, documents or anything in "c:\users\...". No system dirs like "c:\Windows" or "c:\program files".
5. ... do not change, replace any file in that director
6. ... do not add any file (all tweaking tools, own opengl.dll or something like this are banned)
7. ... i just don't want to find after 10 questions, that you added "shaderfx", "future dmd" .... you may play with all that tools later.
8. install gfx card driver from nvidia.com
9. do not play with options like super resolution, dlss or something like this ... again, you may play with all that fancy tweaks later
10. Run FPLoader.exe with admin rights and for start try just plain empty FP table.
You can probably do 100 other things I haven't thought of. I just wan't to eliminate most common sources of problems..
So, lets start with questions:
1. i need screenshot of FP video/rendering options (just to be sure, you did not set something wird)
2. i need gfx card drive version. (default installed with windows are almost for sure broken).... i want to be sure, that you did not try to cheat me at point 7
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3. Antivirus/Antimalware programs.... if BAM crash, first thing to check is to disable all that stuffs. I'm not testing BAM with all that AV programs updates.
4. If BAM crash... i need to look at BAM_CRASH.LOG.