RESOLVED - THANK GOD!!!!
After a lot of hair loss, tears, angry outbursts, a beating from my wife, and a ton of reading just about every single thread on the subject here ... I actually found the solution on "another website".
Here's was the problem (not to contradict anything anyone suggested previously) so if someone else has this problem, they have the solution:
1.) Pinball X has restructured the way it works. You HAVE to have PinDMD.dll active for any graphic or image to show up in the
DMD. Why it was done this way, I don't know ...
2.) According to a posting in the support section of the makers / distributors of PinballX, in the newer versions, the "Hide
DMD" option in the game settings means "Do you want to hide the
DMD image when you are LEAVING PinballX to open say Virtual Pinball."
If 'Hide
DMD' is set to FALSE, the PinballX animation will STAY ON THE
DMD when you start the table. If the table has its own
DMD, PinballX has over-ridden the
DMD and the
DMD for the game doesn't show up. This is fine for games that DON'T use the
DMD like EM tables.
3.) If you set 'Hide
DMD' setting to TRUE, when when you are in PinballX, you see whatever graphic or video you have set to that particular game, but when you start a table, the image / video will turn off (Hide it) and the actual game
DMD will show up.
This had absolutely nothing to do with upgrades, DLLs, etc, it is a setting PinballX makers reversed in newer versions. So the advice I got before was correct for earlier versions, but not correct for newer versions. I was basically looking in completely the wrong place.
Thanks to Thalamus, and 32assassin for the initial assistance.
BTW: I am using PinballX 3.04 which is the newest version, which I actually really like because it has a great new feature called 'Favorites List' which means you can create a list of your favorite tables within the PinballX emulator and not have to even touch an XML file to make a favorites list. If you have a favorite table, click 1 button and it has been saved to a favorites list you can pull up at any time.
The other nice things with version 3.04 is that previous, a lot of mp4 videos crashed Pinball X. This seems to be resolved now.
Hope this info helps someone else because I wish I knew all this before I went ripping through every upgrade for each program to try and resolve this issue.
If you found this useful ... leave a comment below.
Edited by HiRez00, 16 June 2018 - 02:13 AM.